Individual Counseling For Men
Sex/Relationship Challenges, Improving Self-Esteem/Self-Confidence & More
Lord Ainsworth primarily concentrates on supporting men. Society frequently recognizes physical strength, combat skills, and sexual prowess as masculine traits that define manhood. Men are often the contributing factor to the creation of patriarchal system that dominates our society and relationship, and they are expected to uphold this system. However, this also trap men.​
Often, men find it challenging to understand their masculine role in today's society. Young men, in particular, are currently grappling with avoiding what pop culture labels as “toxic masculinity.” They aspire to be seen as respectable men. However, being unsure about how to embrace all aspects of masculinity have lead many men from all age groups to feel in limbo or battling between ​Hypermasculinity and insufficiently masculine.
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These difficulties can become more profound in relationships. Many of R2I male clients are taught how to protect and provide for their families, but very few were given the tools how to properly navigate the elements within the relationship.
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Counseling for men can help you work through all aspects of your life – whether it’s for navigating rocky times in your relationship or learning new tools to manage stress or anger at work or in your day-to-day life.
Companionship in a modern world is still for everyone. That includes you.
​dating | relationships | lifestyle | healing + mental health​
How Do I Know If I Need Individual Advisement?
For us men, figuring out the best time to seek relationship advice can be difficult. Many perceive asking for help as a sign of weakness, which can result in feelings of failure and disappointment when they are unable to solve certain relationship or marital problems on their own. But there's nothing wrong with talking to someone whose career involves assisting people in finding solutions to their dating, relationship, and marriage issues.
Personal counseling offers a private, non-judgmental space for open discussions. Whether you're dealing with past or present trauma, sexual concerns, or relationship difficulties causing distress, these sessions eliminate the negative stigmas and embarrassment associated with discussing such matters with family and friends. R2I also provide support for significant life changes such as beginning a new job, relocating, getting married or divorced, dating, or having a child.
If you're prepared, we're just a call away to discuss and explore a new path and perspective on life.
Can Individual Therapy Help with Dating and Relationship Issues?
Can Individual Therapy Help with Dating and Relationship Issues? In today's fast-paced world, dating and relationships can be overwhelming. Many feel uncertain about their emotions, relationship dynamics, or self-worth, leading to frustration and anxiety.
Individual therapy provides a safe space to explore these feelings. It offers insights into how past experiences affect current relationships and helps develop skills for healthy relationships, such as effective communication, boundary setting, and recognizing healthy versus unhealthy relationships.
Therapy also aids in self-reflection, helping individuals understand their desires and expectations in a partner. It empowers individuals to take charge of their dating lives, fostering personal growth and enhancing self-esteem for more fulfilling connections. Whether facing dating challenges, navigating a breakup, or improving relationship skills, therapy can be transformative. If you're feeling lost or confused about your relationship matters, consider reaching out to a therapist for guidance on this journey of self-discovery and healing.
Teletherapy Service Available
Free 1-Hour Consultation
Judgement-Free Counseling
Companionship in a modern world is still for everyone. That includes you.
​dating | relationships | lifestyle | healing + mental health
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​What Issues Do You Treat With Individual Therapy?
It's common for men to face challenges in romantic relationships. Every man experiences difficulties at times, and help is a healthy response. While sharing your story with someone new can be daunting, it also provide a much-needed sense of relief.
At Relate 2 It, Lord, specialize in navigating men's behaviors, personalities, and traits, and their influence on men love life. Our focus includes men's Physical strength, Independence, Leadership, Assertiveness, Risk-taking, Aggression, Dominance, Professional Success, and Being the Breadwinner. Additionally, if you need support with physical or emotional challenges, sexuality, body image, or lifestyle, Relate 2 It is ready to assist you.​​
​Common Problems Treated With Couples Counseling
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Do you suffer from insecurity around women? Do you freeze up around the women you're most attracted to and find yourself feeling shy and uncomfortable around the women you're most interested in?
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Do you keep attracting women who are unavailable, or who seem a bit "crazy", who you know --- deep down --- aren't really right for you?
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Do women confuse the hell out of you? Are you clueless as to what women really want and struggle with how to navigate their moods and understand their desires?
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Do you keep ending up in the "friend zone" with the women you like --- and can't figure out how to shift things so you can become MORE than just a friend?
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Are you a single dad? Newly divorced? Have you been out of the dating game for so long that you feel a bit nervous as to how to dive back in and navigate the current dating world?
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Are you tired of hanging out with your guy friends at night, killing time watching TV or being on the computer, when what you REALLY want is to spend your time with an incredible, vibrant woman?
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Have you lost hope with dating and worry that you just don't have what it takes to attract the kind of incredible, high quality woman that you desire?
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Do you struggle navigating the ups and downs in your relationship? Are you confused by your partner and her needs? Do you find it hard to communicate with your partner in a way that opens her up rather than shuts her down?
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Do you wish you had a dating coach and therapist wrapped in one? A dating coach to help you move through your challenges meeting quality women and a therapist to help you figure out what's getting in your way and help you shift old patterns?
Primary Goal Of Relate 2 It
Relate 2 It Advisory Services provide resources and support specifically tailored to men's needs, including guidance on relationships and marriage, mental health, domestic abuse, and personal development. These services can include helplines, online support, counseling, and access to specialist services. Key aspects of Relate 2 It Advisory Services: Confidentiality: What a client share during the one on one meetings are confidential remain private unless there are legal exceptions or the client provides consent as a couple. You are free to talk about anything like sexual desires, affairs, bad behavior,  past crimes that isn't necessarily criminal behavior. will not be shared. Accessibility: Services are designed to be accessible to clients with busy schedules. Expertise: Specialized training to address men specific needs in relationships and marriage, mental health, and personal development.. Holistic Approach: Services often address multiple aspects of a person's dating life and relationships not just as a symptom of mental or emotional issues, but as interconnected with their overall physical, emotional, social, and spiritual well-being. With the intent to address the root causes of relationship challenges by fostering self-awareness and promoting personal growth and well-being in various aspects of life. Specific examples of Advisory Services: Personal Development and Lifestyle Support: Offering advice consulting on a wide range of topics, including styling and image, fitness, nutrition, relationships, and more. Domestic Abuse Support: Provide information and resources to confidential helpline, email, and webchat for individuals experiencing or who have experienced domestic abuse. Mental Health Support: Offering support and resources to address issues like depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. They take a holistic approach, aiming to support men before they reach a crisis point.
​How Long Do it Take To Start Seeing Results
The length of each session depends on your specific, personal circumstances, and the goals you set during your personal meeting. For some individuals, the process may yield significant relief and positive results within a relatively short time-frame, typically ranging from two to six sessions, while others may need a longer commitment, spanning weeks or months, to tackle complex issues or deep-rooted patterns.
Each meeting is an opportunity for personal exploration, growth, and healing, tailored to fit the unique narrative of the individual seeking support. To achieve optimal results, there should be openness to discuss any issues and complete transparency of truth, enabling a personalized approach and collaborative effort between you and Lord Ainsworth.
​What Should I Know Before My First Session?
To make the most of your time, you'll receive all necessary forms and paperwork digitally before your session starts. This allows us to focus on your goals more quickly. Once the forms are completed and submitted, your first individual meeting can officially begin.
The first few sessions are designed to help LA understand you better, to support you holistically as you work toward your objectives. Together, you'll create a treatment plan that addresses your goals while emphasizing and nurturing your inherent strengths.
Relate 2 It Advisory Services provide resources and support specifically tailored to men's needs, including guidance on relationships and marriage, mental health, domestic abuse, and personal development. These services can include helplines, online support, counseling, and access to specialist services.
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Key aspects of Relate 2 It Advisory Services:
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Confidentiality: What a client share during the one on one meetings are confidential remain private unless there are legal exceptions or the client provides consent as a couple. You are free to talk about anything like sexual desires, affairs, bad behavior, past crimes that isn't necessarily criminal behavior. will not be shared.
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Accessibility:
Services are designed to be accessible to clients with busy schedules.
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Expertise:
Specialized training to address men specific needs in relationships and marriage, mental health, and personal development.
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Holistic Approach:
Services often address multiple aspects of a person's dating life and relationships not just as a symptom of mental or emotional issues, but as interconnected with their overall physical, emotional, social, and spiritual well-being. With the intent to address the root causes of relationship challenges by fostering self-awareness and promoting personal growth and well-being in various aspects of life.
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Specific examples of Advisory Services:
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Personal Development and Lifestyle Support:
Offering advice consulting on a wide range of topics, including styling and image, fitness, nutrition, relationships, and more.
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Domestic Abuse Support:
provide information and resources to confidential helpline, email, and webchat for individuals experiencing or who have experienced domestic abuse.
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Mental Health Support:
Offering support and resources to address issues like depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. They take a holistic approach, aiming to support men before they reach a crisis point. ​
​How Much Does Individual Sessions Cost?
The Relate 2 It individual services is budget-friendly. One of the key elements of your life is maintaining a healthy long-term relationship, and accessing resources to achieve that goal shouldn't be financially burdensome.
For your convenience, we offer weekly and biweekly options.
Individual 75 minutes Meeting: $95
Pinpoint Meetings: Varies​
1 hr. Complimentary Call​​