A romantic relationship with a woman is like a gearbox; knowing when and which gear to shift in is vital.
I am Not Here to Coach Men…
I Am Here to Guide Them
I am Lord Ainsworth, a dating and relationship adviser specializing in helping couples build healthy long-term relationships and enhance intimacy.
Since 2021, LA has redirected his focus on assisting young college men, 9-5 working, professionals, and entrepreneurs men aiming to maintain long-term relationships. Improve their skills in the dating scene and personal image, particularly those who see themselves as introverted. He also assists extroverts in developing self-discipline, enhancing their self-expression, and achieving a balanced approach in their interactions with women.
The goal with each client of Lord's is to become better in having
stronger connections with women for better dating experiences.
Help them understand the relationship dynamics better so they can have long term success in their relationship or marriage.
If you've faced challenging relationships, have an unsatisfying dating life, are unsure of your relationship goals, feel misunderstood by women, or struggle to connect with them, I can help you define your partnership desires, navigate painful issues, and create a safe space to overcome fears and obstacles. ABOUT ME
Everyone has the right to be empowered, live in a healthy, and thriving relationships. That includes you.
Cerebral Advice To Become The Man A Woman Desire
Today's men are looking at two systems: the traditional way or, should I say, the old-school process from how our fathers (partially) and grandfathers viewed courtship and how they engaged women. which is an entirely different take and approach in our modern-day world of dating and relationships from our forefather's style. Our father's and grandfather's era of relationships is no longer compatible with today's society. Well, most of it. And the coding with our women today differs from their past generations. Some men in our modern era suggest that the modern version doesn't work and somebody should throw it away. I have to disagree and can only assume that men who say this don't know or understand how the new system works or even how to apply it correctly. Now, with the older model, in many ways, it is outdated. But it's ingrained in us. This process still guides us today. So we can't throw it away, nor can we disregard it. To have a successful, playful, long-term relationship or marriage, you should speak to Lord Ainsworth; he provides practical advice and methods to get you to the level you want to be at. If you are one of those men looking to succeed in your dating life and beyond, you must know how to integrate both systems. Have the knowledge of what to tweak and what not to use in each scenario. So they can work together in your favor.
The Old and New Methods Must Be Strategically Combine.
This Is The Only Way To Success.
Join our exclusive men's social media group, where you'll find a supportive community providing insights and perspectives on navigating modern dating, maintaining relationships, and enhancing your personal image and networking skills. Due to some highly sensitive topics and messaging LA have limited online content. This blog will feature specific tips, insights and techniques from this system... including methods on how
What A Few Past Clients Say
“I appreciate the judgement - free space LA creates. He gave me interesting perspective on issues I described.
– Jeff Wilson
"2023 has been the best year of my life. I can say without a doubt the retreat was totally worth every cent. My social life and business approach have changed radically. Lord , advice and team help me overcome many issues that plagued me most of my life. I feel more comfortable within myself that I've found myself striking up conversation with women with ease and getting dates.
Shurn Smith
DAP is worth every penny. He definitely exceeded my expectations!
Damon Williams
The measure of a man is what he does with his powers
When a man fully comprehend how to properly utilize his "Nice Guy" traits with his "Bad Guy" qualities, he gains an advantage over other men and magnify his appeal to any woman. Women often look for a blend of conscientiousness and intrigue in a man, someone who can provide an unconscious experience that captivates her. Striking the right balance between a nice persona and assertiveness is pivotal for long term success.
To achieve this goal of interest, Lord Ainsworth provides practical advice to help men form meaningful connections with women, attain a dating life they always envision, and shifting relationships or marriages from "this isn't working" category to the healthy, and thriving relationships we always desired.
"A woman can naturally be submissive to a man, if he knows what he is doing to gain it and if he's equipped to fulfill relationship necessity."
Lord Ainsworth
Relate2it
DATING + RELATIONSHIP + LIFESTYLE ADVISORY SERVICE
One-on-one private sessions for men seeking advice on relationships and dating with the goal of cultivate a dating lifestyle, improving self-image / self-presentation, boosting confidence, as well as customize programs on texting techniques, cold approach strategies, and transitioning beyond the friend zone all programs include self-paced materials
Additionally, couples sessions are offered to help in understanding relationship dynamics and guide them in revitalizing their relationship or marriage through open discussions in a safe setting.
Service Options and Areas of Specialties
Advisory Meetings Include
Phone or Video Session
Judgement-Free Space
Self-pace Material to Study
Couples / Premarital Counseling
Couples sessions helps partners in communicate effectively and respectfully clarifying expectations and resolving conflicts to improve their relationship. These sessions often address topics like financial responsibilities and planning, family dynamics, decision-making, and sexual compatibility.
The Best Dating & Relationship Advice
For Men With Little-to-No Experience
The Complex Variety of Men LA work with
Stalemate Male
The men in this category often feel they've missed out on dating and relationship experiences they've spent years prioritizing work, education, saving money, etc., and now find themselves behind their peers. They want a relationship, but are unsure where to begin.
These men often encounter frequent rejection, but it's not uncommon for them to to secure a few dates from time to time. In the majority of their relationships, their women often use them for resources, with the relationship generally lasting 3-6 years until her self-interests change.
Workaholics
Individual male Typically in their 20s and/or 30s, who experience a delayed during the peak period.
They are smart and sensitive,
often labeled nerds/geeks during high school years.
They can be strong and attractive in a low-key, unassuming way, late virgins, and when they finally acquire the attributes (social and/or career status, physique, appearance, etc.) to draw attention from the opposite sex. They struggle in many ways.
Unsure Men
Some men have been in relationships or have dated yet still feel inexperienced, grappling with feelings of uncertainty and inadequacy despite their past experiences.
For some, it's been a long time since their last meaningful connection, and they feel anxious about the prospect of meeting someone new, while others feel disappointed by unsuccessful dating attempts, causing them to question their ability to form a genuine bond. This can become a barrier, making it even harder for them to try again, and leaving them feeling unprepared for modern relationships.
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This is about so much more than getting a girlfriend or being good in bed.
