Today's men are looking at two systems: the traditional way or, should I say, the old-school process from how our fathers (partially) and grandfathers viewed courtship and how they engaged women. which is an entirely different take and approach in our modern-day world of dating and relationships from our forefather's style. ​ Our father's and grandfather's era of relationships is no longer compatible with today's society. Well, most of it. And the coding with our women today differs from their past generations. Some men in our modern era suggest that the modern version doesn't work and somebody should throw it away. I have to disagree and can only assume that men who say this don't know or understand how the new system works or even how to apply it correctly. Now, with the older model, in many ways, it is outdated. But it's ingrained in us. This process still guides us today. So we can't throw it away, nor can we disregard it. To have a successful, playful, long-term relationship or marriage, you should speak to Lord Ainsworth; he provides practical advice and methods to get you to the level you want to be at. If you are one of those men looking to succeed in your dating life and beyond, you must know how to integrate both systems. Have the knowledge of what to tweak and what not to use in each scenario. So they can work together in your favor.