Cerebral Advice To Become The Man A Woman Desire
Today's men are looking at two systems: the traditional way or, should I say, the old-school process from how our fathers (partially) and grandfathers viewed courtship and how they engaged women. which is an entirely different take and approach in our modern-day world of dating and relationships from our forefather's style. Our father's and grandfather's era of relationships is no longer compatible with today's society. Well, most of it. And the coding with our women today differs from their past generations. Some men in our modern era suggest that the modern version doesn't work and somebody should throw it away. I have to disagree and can only assume that men who say this don't know or understand how the new system works or even how to apply it correctly. Now, with the older model, in many ways, it is outdated. But it's ingrained in us. This process still guides us today. So we can't throw it away, nor can we disregard it. To have a successful, playful, long-term relationship or marriage, you should speak to Lord Ainsworth; he provides practical advice and methods to get you to the level you want to be at. If you are one of those men looking to succeed in your dating life and beyond, you must know how to integrate both systems. Have the knowledge of what to tweak and what not to use in each scenario. So they can work together in your favor.
The Old and New Methods Must Be Strategically Combine.
This Is The Only Way To Success.
I am Not Here to Coach Boys…
I Am Here to Counsel MEN.
Salute to all, allow me to reintroduce myself.
My name is Lord Ainsworth, a dating and relationship adviser specializing in helping single gentleman and couples in their romantic endeavors.
Since 2021, I'd redirected my focus back to assisting young college men, 9-5 working, professionals, and entrepreneurs men aiming to maintain long-term relationships. Particularly those who see themselves as introverted. To improve their skills in the dating scene and personal image.
I also work extroverts in developing self-discipline, enhancing their self-expression, and achieving a balanced approach in their interactions with women to have long term success in every man romantic endeavors.
The goal with each client is to help individuals identify areas of interpersonal awareness and growth and improve their relationship mindset and abilities to have a fun, engaging and healthy experiences with their partner.
If you're facing any dating challenging or having a unsatisfying dating life. Feeling misunderstood by women, or struggle to connect with them. Perhaps you and your partner are dealing with romantic issues.
Everyone has the right to be empowered, live in a healthy, and thriving relationships. That includes you.
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A romantic relationship with a woman is like a gearbox; knowing when and which gear to shift in is vital.
Service Provider
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Group workshops, seminars, and bootcamps
(both virtual and in-person)
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Online courses and instructionals
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One-on-One Meeting / Sessions
(in person session are only conducted in the Los Angeles area only)
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Phone and video call coaching, as well as text support
Note: I also work with aspiring podcaster. If you’re interested in receiving consultation on growing your own podcast business, I would love to hear from you.
What we’re "Not About"
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What A Few Past Clients Say
“I appreciate the judgement - free space LA creates. He gave me interesting perspective on issues I described.
– Jeff Wilson
"2023 has been the best year of my life. I can say without a doubt the retreat was totally worth every cent. My social life and business approach have changed radically. Lord , advice and team help me overcome many issues that plagued me most of my life. I feel more comfortable within myself that I've found myself striking up conversation with women with ease and getting dates.
Shurn Smith
DAP is worth every penny. He definitely exceeded my expectations!
Damon Williams
"A woman can naturally be submissive to a man, if he knows what he is doing to gain it and if he's equipped to fulfill relationship necessity."
Lord Ainsworth
The measure of a man is what he does with his powers
When a man fully comprehend how to properly utilize his "Nice Guy" traits with his "Bad Guy" qualities, he gains an advantage over other men and magnify his appeal to any woman. Women often look for a blend of conscientiousness and intrigue in a man, someone who can provide an unconscious experience that captivates her. Striking the right balance between a nice persona and assertiveness is pivotal for long term success.
To achieve this goal of interest, Lord Ainsworth provides practical advice to help men form meaningful connections with women, attain a dating life they always envision, and shifting relationships or marriages from "this isn't working" category to the healthy, and thriving relationships we always desired.
Whether you’re completely new to the idea of proactively improving your love life, are already relatively successful with dating and relationships, or are somewhere in between, we can help you:
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find long-term relationships, life partners, marriage, and love
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grow and sustain those relationships
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attract short-term, mutually beneficial, casual relationships and adventures
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manage fear, approach anxiety, doubt, self-defeating and irrational beliefs, and live a life of greater social freedom
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set up online dating profiles that convert, across multiple platforms
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learn to message/text and effectively set up dates
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keep interactions alive, set up second dates, third dates, and beyond
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customize your approach to dating, and attract highly compatible women
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develop the ability to flirt, converse, build attraction, deepen rapport, trigger emotions, and consensually initiate physical contact
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get over breakups, deal with the pain, and understand root causes of the breakup
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win back your ex (or ensure that mistakes are understood and not repeated)
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win over that special someone that you’re crushing over (or, at least, increase the chances of making it happen)
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expand your social circles and networking skills
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build a lifestyle that’s congruent with your unique personality, and that’s also attractive to your ideal woman
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develop a winning and rational mindset that leads to long-term results (inner game)
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develop a comprehensive understanding of the dating game
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maximize your potential in this crucial area of life
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transform yourself from the inside out
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identify blind spots that are holding you back (blind spots cover their own tracks)
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move up the ranks in skill and understanding – beginner to intermediate, intermediate to advanced, advanced to a never-ending commitment to improvement and progress
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gain not only confidence, but, more importantly, competence
Relate2it
DATING + RELATIONSHIP + LIFESTYLE ADVISORY SERVICE
One-on-one private sessions for men seeking advice on relationships and dating with the goal of cultivate a dating lifestyle, improving self-image / self-presentation, boosting confidence, as well as customize programs on texting techniques, cold approach strategies, and transitioning beyond the friend zone all programs include self-paced materials
Additionally, couples sessions are offered to help in understanding relationship dynamics and guide them in revitalizing their relationship or marriage through open discussions in a safe setting.
Service Options and Areas of Specialties
Advisory Meetings Include
Phone or Video Session
Judgement-Free Space
Self-pace Material to Study
Couples / Premarital Counseling
Couples sessions helps partners in communicate effectively and respectfully clarifying expectations and resolving conflicts to improve their relationship. These sessions often address topics like financial responsibilities and planning, family dynamics, decision-making, and sexual compatibility.
The Best Dating & Relationship Advice
For Men With Little-to-No Experience
Who We Advise
Relate 2 It services embrace individuals from diverse backgrounds and different life experience, offering hospitality service to unique personalities, motivations, and goals.
All ages:
Men of all ages come to us for help. We’ve worked with guys as young as 18 (even a few that were younger, with parental consent), late seventies, and everything in between. On average clients are in their early to mid-twenties through their mid- to late-sixties.
Different cultures:
Every client is different, and holds different values. The great thing about our training is that it’s catered to the needs of each individual.
Income levels:
Acquire great services at an affordable rate. This industry is highly expensive by most standards and I didn't get in business to advice multimillionaires. I got in this business to help the average working man and couples in their romantic endeavors. I believe your romantic endeavor shouldn't break you and that include seeking dating advice and relationship counseling.
Good intentions:
Respect for women is the one area that we do not compromise on. Worry not; men of integrity get the best results anyway!
Global reach:
While the majority of our clients are from within the United States, we work with men from all over the world.
Unique personalities:
We are not in the business of pressuring guys to completely change who they are, all in the name of improving their game. Chances are your personality is well-suited for someone out there. Mainstream, alternative, somewhere in between – we’ll help you to develop your own style of game.
Different religions:
Once again, your love life is yours – nobody else’s. Whether God is front and center in your life, mildly directing from the background, or if you don’t believe in God at all, we can adjust our coaching to meet your needs.
Experience levels:
It may surprise you to learn that not every client is at rock bottom – desperately in need of making a change. In fact, some of our clients have a lot of experience, but they’re always looking to take themselves to the next level. Beginner, intermediate, advanced – we’ve got you covered.
The Complex Variety of Men LA work with
Men exhibit a wide range of behaviors and personalities in relationships, influenced by factors like individual differences, cultural norms, and personal experiences. These detail can play a huge role in relationship expectations, and power dynamics.
Stalemate Male
The men in this category often feel they've missed out on dating and relationship experiences they've spent years prioritizing work, education, saving money, etc., and now find themselves behind their peers. They want a relationship, but are unsure where to begin.
These men often encounter frequent rejection, but it's not uncommon for them to to secure a few dates from time to time. In the majority of their relationships, their women often use them for resources, with the relationship generally lasting 3-6 years until her self-interests change.
Workaholics
Individual male Typically in their 20s and/or 30s, who experience a delayed during the peak period.
They are smart and sensitive,
often labeled nerds/geeks during high school years.
They can be strong and attractive in a low-key, unassuming way, late virgins, and when they finally acquire the attributes (social and/or career status, physique, appearance, etc.) to draw attention from the opposite sex. They struggle in many ways.
Unsure Men
Some men have been in relationships or have dated yet still feel inexperienced, grappling with feelings of uncertainty and inadequacy despite their past experiences.
For some, it's been a long time since their last meaningful connection, and they feel anxious about the prospect of meeting someone new, while others feel disappointed by unsuccessful dating attempts, causing them to question their ability to form a genuine bond. This can become a barrier, making it even harder for them to try again, and leaving them feeling unprepared for modern relationships.
Ready to level up in a whole new way. For Life.
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This is about so much more than getting a girlfriend or being good in bed.
